Author
Karla Solano
Oh Divine essence of love… you ignite my world with light and joy… I love thee for you bring me hope, when the world around me seems to fall down upon all. I embrace your grace and radiant glow because without you this world would self destruct.
Your compassion is as vast as the ocean that surrounds our earth…and if it weren’t for your forgiveness our lives would be a dead end. I thank you for your subtlety and soft caress, for bringing peace and balance in such a decaying earth.
Your presence is felt each day.....when a mother gives her unconditional love to children on earth. You are represented by every nurturing, loving and compassionate being on this world…whether male or female…that is not the point.
You represent the union between the logic mind (masculine) and the emotional essence (feminine) and to you there is no distinction between one or the other…they are just ONE. Perfectly aligned and integrated to complete a Whole.
May your wisdom be showered upon all who are ready to receive your gift of union and love…for this world’s only chance to save itself it’s by becoming one with all that it contains. And for as long as we continue to alienate ourselves from one another...we will keep missing the chance to live a peaceful and loving existence on this earth.
I ask of thee to guide my way so that I can be a beacon of your light on earth… Give me the strength and courage to stand up for what I believe so that I am able to bring the truth of your essence back to each soul on this physical plane….
Monday, July 20, 2009
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Shifting Energies
Author
Karla Solano
Our life like the wind is in constant movement. This movement of energy is necessary to ensure that our personal growth is in a continuous path of renewal, without this process our lives run the risk of becoming stagnant and limited.
There are many times in our lives when we feel as though we cannot catch a breath because of all the curve balls that seem to come in our direction at once causing our worlds to appear in a state of chaos and imbalance; It almost feels as if we can hardly grasp some air to fully recover from one chaotic experience before facing another.
During times like these it’s important to note that all of these “chaotic” experiences as difficult as they may appear are really happening to push us into a new direction that can bring us many blessings and growth.
We as human beings, tend to become comfortable in our everyday existence and most of the time we become so used to our environment that we cause our own energy to become still and limited. It becomes a habit to keep a routine because it makes us feel safe and in control; but the truth of the matter is that we could be hindering our own progress because of the fear of stepping out of our comfort zone.
One thing that I have noticed through personal experience is that just when I think I am at a good point in my life, something will occur to bring change into my existence. At first this used to get me very upset because I felt as though the Universe was being cruel to me but as the years have gone by and I have learned to observe why things happen the way they do, I have realized that we are connected with the Universe and all that is contained within it and no matter how separate and independent of the world we think we are, everything is taking place for our well being.
The Universe is working in our benefit, therefore it will cause the energies to shift and create waves of movement that can appear chaotic but in reality they are just cleansing our existence and breaking away old energies to make room for the new ones to fill our world.
There is not one drop of rain that falls from the sky without having a reason for being, everything is in perfect alignment and the shift of energies are a primordial part of our existence. Learn to embrace all the situations that come to your world and realize that everything is in its perfect place; life is already taken care of by a higher force that knows what’s best for us before we can even catch a glimpse of it.
Trust that everything is working to our advantage whether we realize it or not. The bigger picture is hard to see when we are going through our everyday turmoil but have faith in the fact that we have a higher power looking after our well being, who has a great view from up above and can see what is the best path for us to follow.
Karla Solano
Our life like the wind is in constant movement. This movement of energy is necessary to ensure that our personal growth is in a continuous path of renewal, without this process our lives run the risk of becoming stagnant and limited.
There are many times in our lives when we feel as though we cannot catch a breath because of all the curve balls that seem to come in our direction at once causing our worlds to appear in a state of chaos and imbalance; It almost feels as if we can hardly grasp some air to fully recover from one chaotic experience before facing another.
During times like these it’s important to note that all of these “chaotic” experiences as difficult as they may appear are really happening to push us into a new direction that can bring us many blessings and growth.
We as human beings, tend to become comfortable in our everyday existence and most of the time we become so used to our environment that we cause our own energy to become still and limited. It becomes a habit to keep a routine because it makes us feel safe and in control; but the truth of the matter is that we could be hindering our own progress because of the fear of stepping out of our comfort zone.
One thing that I have noticed through personal experience is that just when I think I am at a good point in my life, something will occur to bring change into my existence. At first this used to get me very upset because I felt as though the Universe was being cruel to me but as the years have gone by and I have learned to observe why things happen the way they do, I have realized that we are connected with the Universe and all that is contained within it and no matter how separate and independent of the world we think we are, everything is taking place for our well being.
The Universe is working in our benefit, therefore it will cause the energies to shift and create waves of movement that can appear chaotic but in reality they are just cleansing our existence and breaking away old energies to make room for the new ones to fill our world.
There is not one drop of rain that falls from the sky without having a reason for being, everything is in perfect alignment and the shift of energies are a primordial part of our existence. Learn to embrace all the situations that come to your world and realize that everything is in its perfect place; life is already taken care of by a higher force that knows what’s best for us before we can even catch a glimpse of it.
Trust that everything is working to our advantage whether we realize it or not. The bigger picture is hard to see when we are going through our everyday turmoil but have faith in the fact that we have a higher power looking after our well being, who has a great view from up above and can see what is the best path for us to follow.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Inner Knowing
Author
Karla Solano
The path to self discovery is a rocky road to follow; it takes a lot of patience, self discipline and perseverance. But once you find yourself and reach a higher state of awareness, there is nothing that can take away all the inner joy, peace and self love that this inner knowing brings.
Our everyday life tends to distract us from the infinite connection with our inner guidance; therefore it is imperative to take time out from our busy schedules to fully engage in strengthening this higher connection with the universe and with all that is contained within it, so that we can become whole again.
Inner knowing not only brings bliss into our lives, but it also gives us a sense of assurance that everything is in place the way it needs to be, it gives us a feeling of being protected and taken care of. It is amazing but something magical takes place once we connect with our Divine self. Life becomes easier to deal with, we learn to observe situations and people before reacting irrationally, we become more receptive and accepting of others, and the need to judge ourselves and others dissipates.
Learning to trust our inner knowing is an essential part of our existence because it guides us in the right direction, and it helps us learn about ourselves. This process does not happen overnight however, we all have the power within us to reach the unparalleled infinite path to discovering our true divine nature. All we have to do is look within to find all the perfection we seek.
The only way to really find our true connection with the Divine is by making a conscious effort to let go of the control our egos long for; Unplugging completely from the daily noise by finding peaceful and quiet moments in our lives which can help us maintain a balanced and joyful existence.
All this inner knowing really means is that we as human physical beings need to learn how to get out of our own way and allow our Divine spirit to work through us so that we can live a healthier, peaceful and loving life. Our Divine essence is sitting there quietly waiting for the moment when we give ourselves permission to live in unison with our higher self.
This gift of inner knowing is very powerful and it can only bring forth emotional and physical healing as well as purity into our lives. So let’s begin to connect with our Divine essence so we can fully embrace our existence on this planet, in complete unison with one another.
Karla Solano
The path to self discovery is a rocky road to follow; it takes a lot of patience, self discipline and perseverance. But once you find yourself and reach a higher state of awareness, there is nothing that can take away all the inner joy, peace and self love that this inner knowing brings.
Our everyday life tends to distract us from the infinite connection with our inner guidance; therefore it is imperative to take time out from our busy schedules to fully engage in strengthening this higher connection with the universe and with all that is contained within it, so that we can become whole again.
Inner knowing not only brings bliss into our lives, but it also gives us a sense of assurance that everything is in place the way it needs to be, it gives us a feeling of being protected and taken care of. It is amazing but something magical takes place once we connect with our Divine self. Life becomes easier to deal with, we learn to observe situations and people before reacting irrationally, we become more receptive and accepting of others, and the need to judge ourselves and others dissipates.
Learning to trust our inner knowing is an essential part of our existence because it guides us in the right direction, and it helps us learn about ourselves. This process does not happen overnight however, we all have the power within us to reach the unparalleled infinite path to discovering our true divine nature. All we have to do is look within to find all the perfection we seek.
The only way to really find our true connection with the Divine is by making a conscious effort to let go of the control our egos long for; Unplugging completely from the daily noise by finding peaceful and quiet moments in our lives which can help us maintain a balanced and joyful existence.
All this inner knowing really means is that we as human physical beings need to learn how to get out of our own way and allow our Divine spirit to work through us so that we can live a healthier, peaceful and loving life. Our Divine essence is sitting there quietly waiting for the moment when we give ourselves permission to live in unison with our higher self.
This gift of inner knowing is very powerful and it can only bring forth emotional and physical healing as well as purity into our lives. So let’s begin to connect with our Divine essence so we can fully embrace our existence on this planet, in complete unison with one another.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
The doorway to Heaven
Author
Karla Solano
Before I can even begin to write about this doorway, it is important to understand what heaven really is. No matter what religious doctrine we follow, we learn at a very early age about a heaven where we are supposed to go if we are good. We are taught about a heaven that is so far away from us that it is basically unreachable to human kind unless we lead a life without “sin.” And in the case we do “sin”, we have to make sure we repent before we die so we can guarantee a so called place in that heavenly realm.
Heaven is a lot more than just a place we go to when we die. Heaven is a higher realm of existence that is present in our lives every single minute of our being on this planet. Heaven is a higher state of consciousness, a place where we can connect with our higher self and the entire angelic realm whenever we want to find out all the answers to our everyday questions; all we need to do is just look within, ask and trust this inner guidance.
This Heaven is a sacred place where we can go to whenever we feel sad, happy, alone, worried, any time we feel out of place and whenever we want the truth to be revealed to us. We all have our own individual heaven which is as much a part of us as the air we breathe. This heaven is customized to fit our needs and to guide us in making the best choices that will benefit our personal growth and experiences.
You may ask yourself, where is this Heaven and why don’t I have it? Well this Heaven I speak of is embedded in the deepest fiber of our soul, it can be found in our hearts. The reason why we don’t see it is not because it’s not there, but because we as a human race have decided to close this doorway and pay attention to our external dense worlds.
We have become so consumed by materialism, greed, media obsession and selfish behavior, that we have altered our existence on this planet to be controlled by our minds and egos, instead of allowing our hearts and inner knowing to guide us in making our lives much easier to deal with.
Just imagine for a split second how wonderful it would be if we allowed our lives to be guided by this sacred heaven we carry within; if we just let go of the steering wheel and sat in the passenger seat of our lives and just allowed this inner knowing to softly take over and make the best decisions for us without suffering. Just letting it flow through us so we can have the most creative and beautiful ideas without any struggle.
It would be as easy as allowing the latest GPS system to take over when we are driving our cars, taking us in the right direction every time we set a new destination. Think about it! How easy have our lives become with this new GPS device? I for one love it. I could not imagine my life without it. Every time I want to go somewhere I have never been to before, I take my GPS, enter my destination and just trust that it will take the best route to get me to where I need to go.
That is exactly what our inner Heaven does for us. It takes the best route to get us to where we need to go, to meeting the people who are the best for our personal growth, to bringing situations in our lives that are perfect for every single one of us; without hesitations, without struggles, without fear, without anger, without pain. Everything just takes place as it should be effortlessly.
The doorway to heaven is the conscious expansion of our being, which can be reached through daily meditation. There is a misconception about meditation because most people think that they have to be into Buddhism or Hinduism and it is falsely believed that you must sit on a lotus position in order to meditate. But the truth is that no matter what religious background we come from, we can all take a few minutes of each day to sit quietly, undisturbed, focusing in our inner selves, just breathing rhythmically and filling our lungs with pure air, while connecting with nature. You can do this for just 5 to 10 minutes daily and you can begin to feel a deeper sense of belonging and connection to all that exists.
It is amazing how our lives begin to shift once we surrender to this infinite expansion of consciousness. Once you begin to feel the Divine vibrations and see how love and perfection are always working through us and around us, there is no turning back to the old, false connection to the material world. Once the doorway to heaven has been opened the possibilities to what can be possible are infinite and nothing will ever feel too big or too overwhelming to accomplish.
So now that we know what heaven is, let’s focus on how to connect to it and keep the doorway to this heaven opened to receive all the gifts it has for us. The following steps are tools that can help us keep centered and open to creating a deep connection with our inner heaven.
Steps to opening the doorway to heaven
1) Recognize that you are a divine being
2) Allow your inner wisdom to guide you by listening to your heart
3) Free yourself from judgmental behavior towards yourself and others
4) Live and love without physical, emotional and mental attachments
5) Let go of the need to control
6) Clear your emotional baggage
7) Meditate daily
8) Let go and Let God flow through your being
Karla Solano
Before I can even begin to write about this doorway, it is important to understand what heaven really is. No matter what religious doctrine we follow, we learn at a very early age about a heaven where we are supposed to go if we are good. We are taught about a heaven that is so far away from us that it is basically unreachable to human kind unless we lead a life without “sin.” And in the case we do “sin”, we have to make sure we repent before we die so we can guarantee a so called place in that heavenly realm.
Heaven is a lot more than just a place we go to when we die. Heaven is a higher realm of existence that is present in our lives every single minute of our being on this planet. Heaven is a higher state of consciousness, a place where we can connect with our higher self and the entire angelic realm whenever we want to find out all the answers to our everyday questions; all we need to do is just look within, ask and trust this inner guidance.
This Heaven is a sacred place where we can go to whenever we feel sad, happy, alone, worried, any time we feel out of place and whenever we want the truth to be revealed to us. We all have our own individual heaven which is as much a part of us as the air we breathe. This heaven is customized to fit our needs and to guide us in making the best choices that will benefit our personal growth and experiences.
You may ask yourself, where is this Heaven and why don’t I have it? Well this Heaven I speak of is embedded in the deepest fiber of our soul, it can be found in our hearts. The reason why we don’t see it is not because it’s not there, but because we as a human race have decided to close this doorway and pay attention to our external dense worlds.
We have become so consumed by materialism, greed, media obsession and selfish behavior, that we have altered our existence on this planet to be controlled by our minds and egos, instead of allowing our hearts and inner knowing to guide us in making our lives much easier to deal with.
Just imagine for a split second how wonderful it would be if we allowed our lives to be guided by this sacred heaven we carry within; if we just let go of the steering wheel and sat in the passenger seat of our lives and just allowed this inner knowing to softly take over and make the best decisions for us without suffering. Just letting it flow through us so we can have the most creative and beautiful ideas without any struggle.
It would be as easy as allowing the latest GPS system to take over when we are driving our cars, taking us in the right direction every time we set a new destination. Think about it! How easy have our lives become with this new GPS device? I for one love it. I could not imagine my life without it. Every time I want to go somewhere I have never been to before, I take my GPS, enter my destination and just trust that it will take the best route to get me to where I need to go.
That is exactly what our inner Heaven does for us. It takes the best route to get us to where we need to go, to meeting the people who are the best for our personal growth, to bringing situations in our lives that are perfect for every single one of us; without hesitations, without struggles, without fear, without anger, without pain. Everything just takes place as it should be effortlessly.
The doorway to heaven is the conscious expansion of our being, which can be reached through daily meditation. There is a misconception about meditation because most people think that they have to be into Buddhism or Hinduism and it is falsely believed that you must sit on a lotus position in order to meditate. But the truth is that no matter what religious background we come from, we can all take a few minutes of each day to sit quietly, undisturbed, focusing in our inner selves, just breathing rhythmically and filling our lungs with pure air, while connecting with nature. You can do this for just 5 to 10 minutes daily and you can begin to feel a deeper sense of belonging and connection to all that exists.
It is amazing how our lives begin to shift once we surrender to this infinite expansion of consciousness. Once you begin to feel the Divine vibrations and see how love and perfection are always working through us and around us, there is no turning back to the old, false connection to the material world. Once the doorway to heaven has been opened the possibilities to what can be possible are infinite and nothing will ever feel too big or too overwhelming to accomplish.
So now that we know what heaven is, let’s focus on how to connect to it and keep the doorway to this heaven opened to receive all the gifts it has for us. The following steps are tools that can help us keep centered and open to creating a deep connection with our inner heaven.
Steps to opening the doorway to heaven
1) Recognize that you are a divine being
2) Allow your inner wisdom to guide you by listening to your heart
3) Free yourself from judgmental behavior towards yourself and others
4) Live and love without physical, emotional and mental attachments
5) Let go of the need to control
6) Clear your emotional baggage
7) Meditate daily
8) Let go and Let God flow through your being
Friday, June 26, 2009
Forgiveness
Author
Karla Solano
Forgiveness is the process in which we finally let go of hatred towards a person who has harmed us in any particular way. This process is very important to our well being because it allows us to remove all the negativity that binds us to others, therefore freeing us from the pain resentment can cause.
Life has a way of challenging our existence by presenting situations where we have to make a strong and conscious effort to forgive people who frequently disturb our way of life. Sometimes, it becomes overwhelming to deal with people who are very selfish and who have no regards for others; and it may seem as though the universe is playing tricks on us always putting us to the test. But the reality is that every experience we go through brings an amazing potential for us to learn about ourselves and to grow as human beings.
It is important to realize that in order for us to lead a happy life; we need to forgive not only ourselves but also the people around us. The act of forgiving, releases our body from negative energies held inside of our being, clearing us from emotional blockages and allowing our soul to be free.
The world’s chaos is a manifestation of our inability to love and forgive one another, therefore creating separatism amongst the human race. Peace and change will only take place once we learn to have compassion for others, accept everyone as they are and when we start to forgive one another no matter how much pain people may have caused.
We are all part of a vast universe in which the interconnection between each other is beyond our comprehension and as long as we keep finding ways to alienate ourselves from one another, we will continue to create disorder and war. So let’s unite in love and forgiveness to heal this world once and for all.
Karla Solano
Forgiveness is the process in which we finally let go of hatred towards a person who has harmed us in any particular way. This process is very important to our well being because it allows us to remove all the negativity that binds us to others, therefore freeing us from the pain resentment can cause.
Life has a way of challenging our existence by presenting situations where we have to make a strong and conscious effort to forgive people who frequently disturb our way of life. Sometimes, it becomes overwhelming to deal with people who are very selfish and who have no regards for others; and it may seem as though the universe is playing tricks on us always putting us to the test. But the reality is that every experience we go through brings an amazing potential for us to learn about ourselves and to grow as human beings.
It is important to realize that in order for us to lead a happy life; we need to forgive not only ourselves but also the people around us. The act of forgiving, releases our body from negative energies held inside of our being, clearing us from emotional blockages and allowing our soul to be free.
The world’s chaos is a manifestation of our inability to love and forgive one another, therefore creating separatism amongst the human race. Peace and change will only take place once we learn to have compassion for others, accept everyone as they are and when we start to forgive one another no matter how much pain people may have caused.
We are all part of a vast universe in which the interconnection between each other is beyond our comprehension and as long as we keep finding ways to alienate ourselves from one another, we will continue to create disorder and war. So let’s unite in love and forgiveness to heal this world once and for all.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Embracing Nature
Author
Karla Solano
Taking a moment out of our busy schedules to set our minds at ease is of extreme importance for the development of our soul. One of the best ways to do so is by connecting with nature. Take a look around you and embrace all that is contained in your environment and discover how Mother Nature’s beauty surrounds your world filling it with joy, purity and beauty.
Close your eyes and listen to the sound of the wind as it caresses the leaves of the trees, making a heavenly sound of tranquility and freedom. Feel the warmth of the sun as it kisses your skin filling it with radiance, energy and life.
Listen to the choir of birds singing the most amzing symphony as they enjoy the sun rising every morning. Observe the synchronized dance in the sky as the birds move across the clouds, displaying a perfect choreographed performance. Get lost in the sky as the stars shining bright envelop your existence. Allow the light of the moon to shine upon your soul and show you the way into the magnificence of your inner beauty.
We are one with nature and everything we explore in nature is contained within us; therefore, the beauty you see in your external environment is already hidden in the deepest universe of your own soul. Explore nature and live consciously, making an effort to maintain its beauty intact. Take care of our beautiful planet, do not fill it with garbage and be conscious of how you stop the carbon foot print being left behind for the next generations to come.
Everything we do has an effect on our earth, no matter how insignificant you think it is it makes a big difference. Pay attention to your behavior towards our planet and be careful not to fall in the habit of living carelessly without regards for the environment, taking steps such as recycling, taking public transportation and saving water and energy are just a few things you can do to aid in making an effort to control all the damage we have already caused.
So next time you feel the need to dump that cigarette bud on the street as you finish smoking, or throwing the empty gum wrapper on the floor, Stop and think about all the damage you are causing to our beautiful planet.
Our existence on earth depends on how we treat it and no matter how much we try to overlook it; we are connected to it in infinite ways, and by destroying our planet we are hindering our own existence. It is true that our generation may not be able to see the magnitude of all the damage we have created but let’s make an effort to change the way we treat our earth so that the next generations to come can have a place to live in.
Below are a few links that can give you guidelines as to how to improve our way of life so that we can stop the carbon foot print we are leaving behind
http://www.acoolerclimate.com/Articles/Save168andDecrease2700Pounds.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2064548_decrease-carbon-footprint.html
http://www.greenstudentu.com/encyclopedia/carbon_footprint/reduce_footprint
http://www.monkeybargym.com/three-ways-to-decrease-your-carbon-footprint-a-global-warming-article-on-how-to-reduce-your-co2-emissions.html
Karla Solano
Taking a moment out of our busy schedules to set our minds at ease is of extreme importance for the development of our soul. One of the best ways to do so is by connecting with nature. Take a look around you and embrace all that is contained in your environment and discover how Mother Nature’s beauty surrounds your world filling it with joy, purity and beauty.
Close your eyes and listen to the sound of the wind as it caresses the leaves of the trees, making a heavenly sound of tranquility and freedom. Feel the warmth of the sun as it kisses your skin filling it with radiance, energy and life.
Listen to the choir of birds singing the most amzing symphony as they enjoy the sun rising every morning. Observe the synchronized dance in the sky as the birds move across the clouds, displaying a perfect choreographed performance. Get lost in the sky as the stars shining bright envelop your existence. Allow the light of the moon to shine upon your soul and show you the way into the magnificence of your inner beauty.
We are one with nature and everything we explore in nature is contained within us; therefore, the beauty you see in your external environment is already hidden in the deepest universe of your own soul. Explore nature and live consciously, making an effort to maintain its beauty intact. Take care of our beautiful planet, do not fill it with garbage and be conscious of how you stop the carbon foot print being left behind for the next generations to come.
Everything we do has an effect on our earth, no matter how insignificant you think it is it makes a big difference. Pay attention to your behavior towards our planet and be careful not to fall in the habit of living carelessly without regards for the environment, taking steps such as recycling, taking public transportation and saving water and energy are just a few things you can do to aid in making an effort to control all the damage we have already caused.
So next time you feel the need to dump that cigarette bud on the street as you finish smoking, or throwing the empty gum wrapper on the floor, Stop and think about all the damage you are causing to our beautiful planet.
Our existence on earth depends on how we treat it and no matter how much we try to overlook it; we are connected to it in infinite ways, and by destroying our planet we are hindering our own existence. It is true that our generation may not be able to see the magnitude of all the damage we have created but let’s make an effort to change the way we treat our earth so that the next generations to come can have a place to live in.
Below are a few links that can give you guidelines as to how to improve our way of life so that we can stop the carbon foot print we are leaving behind
http://www.acoolerclimate.com/Articles/Save168andDecrease2700Pounds.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2064548_decrease-carbon-footprint.html
http://www.greenstudentu.com/encyclopedia/carbon_footprint/reduce_footprint
http://www.monkeybargym.com/three-ways-to-decrease-your-carbon-footprint-a-global-warming-article-on-how-to-reduce-your-co2-emissions.html
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Emotional Barrier
Author
Karla Solano
There are many times in our lives when the personal experiences we go through, affect us in a way where our approach towards life and people changes, causing us to close ourselves up and put an emotional barrier between us and the people in our lives. This approach is unfortunate because we tend to stereotype everyone simply because we had a negative experience, but the truth of the matter is that we are all unique individuals and as such we all carry specific traits that make us different from one another.
We create this “barrier” because we feel that it will protect us from getting hurt again but the reality is that this wall is only obstructing our own lives; thus creating emotional unbalance. This emotional blockage tends to alter our behavior causing us to do things that are not part of our true nature, because somehow we convince ourselves that if we change the way we are we can obtain happiness and never experience the pain we did in the past. So we begin a journey where we live for the moment, our take on life becomes superficial and the bonding and committing to anyone on an emotional level becomes non-existent.
We in a way become cold, afraid to show any sign of emotion that can make us vulnerable. We allow people in and out of our lives without really giving them a chance to show us that they are not like the stereotype we have created in our minds. Therefore, it is very easy to retract and just walk away from circumstances and people without regards for their feelings towards us.
This emotional barrier that we work so hard to put up is not really protecting us; it is only isolating us from the world. While it can give us a false sense of control and detachment, it is simply stopping us from really expressing our true feelings because as soon as we get too close to others we run away. If you really analyze this behavior, we are really not running away from anyone else except ourselves. Running away only helps to get rid off the people who care for us and at the end of the day we still have to deal with our own internal roller coaster of emotions that we keep sweeping under a rug.
A life lived in fear of being too vulnerable hinders our personal growth & emotional well being. Fear not only impairs our judgment but it also creates a void in our hearts which can make us feel lonely and depressed at times when we least expect it. No matter how hard we try not to get attached to others, we are bound to feel a strong connection with specific individuals who can touch our hearts in a special way, and it wouldn’t be fair to pass up on the opportunity to experience a wonderful relationship just because we are afraid.
It is important to confront our fears and allow the heart to open up and express its true emotions, because not all of our everyday experiences are bound to be negative. There are good apples as well as bad ones but it is up to us to discern the truth that each lesson brings into our lives and be willing to accept the growing pains they may cause. So unlock your heart and release the need to obstruct the path that leads to unifying yourself with others in a higher level of existence. Allow love and forgiveness to enter into your life to free you from all the resentment and fears caused by past experiences.
Karla Solano
There are many times in our lives when the personal experiences we go through, affect us in a way where our approach towards life and people changes, causing us to close ourselves up and put an emotional barrier between us and the people in our lives. This approach is unfortunate because we tend to stereotype everyone simply because we had a negative experience, but the truth of the matter is that we are all unique individuals and as such we all carry specific traits that make us different from one another.
We create this “barrier” because we feel that it will protect us from getting hurt again but the reality is that this wall is only obstructing our own lives; thus creating emotional unbalance. This emotional blockage tends to alter our behavior causing us to do things that are not part of our true nature, because somehow we convince ourselves that if we change the way we are we can obtain happiness and never experience the pain we did in the past. So we begin a journey where we live for the moment, our take on life becomes superficial and the bonding and committing to anyone on an emotional level becomes non-existent.
We in a way become cold, afraid to show any sign of emotion that can make us vulnerable. We allow people in and out of our lives without really giving them a chance to show us that they are not like the stereotype we have created in our minds. Therefore, it is very easy to retract and just walk away from circumstances and people without regards for their feelings towards us.
This emotional barrier that we work so hard to put up is not really protecting us; it is only isolating us from the world. While it can give us a false sense of control and detachment, it is simply stopping us from really expressing our true feelings because as soon as we get too close to others we run away. If you really analyze this behavior, we are really not running away from anyone else except ourselves. Running away only helps to get rid off the people who care for us and at the end of the day we still have to deal with our own internal roller coaster of emotions that we keep sweeping under a rug.
A life lived in fear of being too vulnerable hinders our personal growth & emotional well being. Fear not only impairs our judgment but it also creates a void in our hearts which can make us feel lonely and depressed at times when we least expect it. No matter how hard we try not to get attached to others, we are bound to feel a strong connection with specific individuals who can touch our hearts in a special way, and it wouldn’t be fair to pass up on the opportunity to experience a wonderful relationship just because we are afraid.
It is important to confront our fears and allow the heart to open up and express its true emotions, because not all of our everyday experiences are bound to be negative. There are good apples as well as bad ones but it is up to us to discern the truth that each lesson brings into our lives and be willing to accept the growing pains they may cause. So unlock your heart and release the need to obstruct the path that leads to unifying yourself with others in a higher level of existence. Allow love and forgiveness to enter into your life to free you from all the resentment and fears caused by past experiences.
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